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Wednesday 9 March 2011

Patrick Purcell speaks at the Closing Ceremony of the EYP Session in the Parliament Building in Ivano Frankivsk, Ukraine

Following the success of my speech at the 'Opening Ceremony' of the European Youth Parliament Session in Ivano Frankivsk, Ukraine, the organizers asked me to speak again at the 'Closing Ceremony' in the 'White House' Rada Parliament Building. I decided to use an informal speech this time and it connected with the delegates even better than my first speech. Here it is;

Well done on a great conference. Congratulations to the Chairman, the organizers, Maryana and Uliana and yourselves, the delegates. You did a great job. You worked hard and you deserve a reward. Give yourselves a round of applause [lots of applause].

It is important to remember that if we were in a room together 60 years ago, we would be fighting with or against each other. But we are not fighting, we are talking and this is great progress.

We are communicating using a common language, English. Not being able to speak a common language means not being able to understand each other. So speaking the common language of English is more progress.

You are also using an agreed peaceful system to communicate, to make debate and to adopt resolutions. This is the European system and it gives you a voice as well as a way to debate.

The theme of this conference is Social Responsibility and you have accepted social responsibility by being here. You have accepted social responsibility and you have given yourselves a voice in your own futures.

Communication means sharing ideas in ways that people can understand. Do not expect people to understand you if you do not try to understand them. Understanding other people means putting aside your views and trying to understand where other people come from. Go to them in a way they understand and bring them to your position by good communication.

There are 4 possible solutions in a negotiation situation. I lose-You lose, You Win-I Lose, I Win-You Lose and I Win-You Win. I believe the ‘I Win-You Lose’ is the most popular system in Ukraine [some laughs]. This may make the winner feel good but it means the loser will never do business with you again. The WIN-WIN or principled process of negotiation is favoured by the European Union and Internationally for negotiations. It may take more effort but in the long term it is more profitable and more stable. Always try to create win-win situations.

Now I will ask you to have hope. I take inspiration from my friend Archimandrite Serge Keleher. 40+ years ago he believed the ‘Wall’ would come down. He worked hard trying to convince the right people to support this idea. At that time they thought he was totally crazy. But he was right. The ‘Wall’ did come down. He persisted, like Maryana and Yuliana (the organizers of this conference). and eventually succeeded.

A few months ago I met a fellow Irishman in Ivano-Frankivsk Airport. He told me his company were making their biggest investment so far in Ukraine. They were investing 250 million euro. I said ‘Eamon, you are a brave man to invest in Ukraine’. ‘No’, he said ‘It’s the smartest thing we ever did’. I will repeat that in case you didn’t hear me. He said ‘It’s the smartest thing we ever did’. So have hope.

There are two ways of thinking. I can’t do something….because…I have no money…no time….a million reasons. These same reasons can be used to show you can do something if you say; I can do it if….I get the money…..make the time….etc. Mariana and Yuliana are great examples. They persisted and never gave up hope.

Did anyone ever go to a dancing class to learn how to dance? Raise your hand if you did. [all hands up]. Most of you did. Did you notice that in the beginning you couldn’t do the steps right, you weren’t co-ordinated with the music or your partner? But over time, if you persevered, your steps improved and you advanced in proficiency. The European Parliament is like this. Today is a new step for you. If you practice you will continue to take higher steps towards a better future.

Have a vision and take steps towards that vision. Don’t give up, especially in hard times. Persevere, re-evaluate and succeed. Push yourself, but enjoy the process. Build bridges not walls. Be the best you can be not just for yourselves but for your world.

For the sake of those who did not hear the first day,
May I ask you one more time to answer the same question?

Do you think a better future is possible for Ukraine? [big YES]
One more time? [big YES]

Will you work to make that better future come true? [big YES]
Thank you. You have made my day. [applause].

Patrick Purcell, 7 March 2011,
Closing Ceremony of the European Youth Parliament.
White House Parliament Building, Ivano Frankivsk, Ukraine.
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European Youth Parliament Speech by Patrick Purcell in Ivano Frankivsk, Ukraine

I was asked by organizers of the European Youth Parliament to speak at their 'Opening Ceremony' of the Session in Ivano Frankivsk Ukraine on 5th March 2011. My words connected with the delegates from Ukraine and Europe and they responded with long applause. The formal title is 'Social Responsibility and Unifying Standards' but my preferred title is 'Young Ukrainians say YES to a Better Future'. The speech follows.

"Social responsibility in Europe: on the way to unifying standards"

After the First World War people asked the question WHY? Why were they asked to suffer, fight and die when leaders of Empires disagreed with each other?

This question, WHY, led to the end of the absolute powers of Emperors, Tsars, Kings, Princes and Lords….but these were soon replaced by brutal Dictators.

The Second World War led to more WHY questions as well as demands for workable answers. In the West, people were given more democratic freedoms but Eastern Europeans became prisoners behind a great ‘Wall’.

Visionary leaders accepted responsibility and took steps to end the slavery of communism, and to unite Europe in freedom. Two famous speeches made in front of the Berlin Wall were made by men whose grandparents came from my country, Ireland. In June 1963 John F. Kennedy spoke these words;

Let me ask you to lift your eyes beyond the dangers of today,
to the hopes of tomorrow.
When one man is enslaved, all are not free.
We can look forward to that day
when this city will be joined as one
and [also] this country, and this great Continent of Europe,
in a peaceful and hopeful globe’.

In June 1987, also in Berlin, Ronald Reagan spoke these words;
"This wall will fall.   Beliefs become reality."
Yes, across Europe, this wall will fall.
For it cannot stand against faith;   it cannot stand against truth.
The wall cannot stand against freedom.’

The wall came down in 1990 because people believed it was possible and they acted to turn their thoughts into realities.

If you don’t have a vision of where you want to go,
 You will end up some place - you don’t want to be.

Not having a vision, means giving control of your life, and your future, to another person with another vision. Let me share with you my future vision for Ukraine. I am sure many of you think the same way. I see Ukraine as a respected, responsible, equal partner with her neighbouring nations, with Europe and with the World.

I believe this vision will happen, but not until some organizational, social and personal steps are taken towards it. To make these steps possible, leaders and people have to accept responsibility, and freely choose this way.

All need to work hard to change their behaviour, and to harmonize official and unofficial systems with European and International standards.

The World Bank Country Comparison Report for 2011 places Ukraine in 145th place in the World for doing business. This is not because of famine, war, bad education, disease or bad climate. It is because of continued use of slow uncompetitive, un-connected systems, and old Soviet operational mentalities. If European technical and customer service standards were accepted today, the Ukrainian economy would quickly begin to improve.

The benefits of an improved economy and connection to a free trade market in Europe would mean higher wages, better social services, better infrastructure, and more tax revenue. This is a WIN-WIN situation for Europe and for Ukraine.

It is possible for me to be here today because leaders of the past convinced people to believe and work towards a better future.

Now it is time to put the past to sleep….. It is time to look to the future.

Do not expect other people to change - if you do not first change yourself.

Do not forget the suffering of the past.
But bring life to the dreams of those who suffered
and died in the past, by imagining a better future for all,
not just for Ukraine and Europe, but for our World.

To finish, let me ask you a question.
Do you think a better future is possible for Ukraine? [loud YES from delegates]
Do you think a better future is possible for Ukraine? [loud YES from delegates]
Will you change yourselves and work to bring life to that future? [big YES]

My words are not important.
You have spoken…and you are the future. [long applause]

Patrick (Padraig) Purcell, 5 March 2011
Opening Ceremony of the European Youth Parliament, Ivano Frankivsk, Ukraine.
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